Love vs. Lust (Both Are Needed)

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Love vs. Lust (Both Are Needed)

There are those that may say that lust is a progression towards love, a level leading up to it; in fact I agree with this concept to a certain extent. In any case, I believe both are needed in one’s lifetime.

What is love? To me, love towards another means someone that you can’t live without but what exactly does that mean? It is my experience that a real couple is able to not only find ways to work together but also takes turns being the rock for the other. Patience, respect, appreciation, and desire are all important pieces to the equation of love as are understanding and acceptance.

When it comes to lust, for the most part, it is simply pure animal attraction for each other where clear desire runs wild and once pleasure has been accomplished, walking away from the other can easily be done without consequence.

Can both exist in a relationship, maybe, for a certain amount of time but if it is true love, then emotions of obligation and adoration will win out while animal attraction slips onto the back burner. With that said, is it wrong to love someone while lusting for another? Isn’t that what fantasy is all about? Isn’t that what lustful memories are all about? I believe that there are times when, to satisfy one’s love, we have to draw back from experiences we may have had with others and there is nothing wrong with that. Why? Because, it is the person that we are making love too that we want to please because we appreciate them in more than just one way, in fact we not only want that person, we need that person. So to drop back in time to remember someone you had a lustful relationship with to draw from to please the love that you have in front of you, is almost like that of a sacrifice on your part and the part of the one that you are drawing such an experience from.

Way to often we feel guilty for drawing from such experiences while we make love to the love of our lives but let us remember that everything happens for a positive reason thus the lustful relationship you had earlier in your life was supposed to happen so that when the day came when you needed to draw from such an experience to make love to the one you fully appreciate, you can do so.

We as human beings put ourselves through the ringer more often than we should. Feeling guilty for doing something wrong is one thing but to draw from an intense, lustful, memory between you and a person you had such a lustful relationship with to please your love now is something completely different.


With that said I ask that you my beautiful sisters and brothers get off your own backs should such ideas pop into your head and instead work with them and use them to make the relationship you have with your one true love more solid. Might I also suggest that once you have pleased your love while remembering a past lover, when you have the time, take a moment out to spiritually thank them for coming into your life; it is in this facet, you can respect both relationships.

Blessed Be-